Tuesday 26 March 2013

Personal diary giving a Yoni massage ....

24/3/13 

Having experienced a confused and troubled past do i practise what i preach  ???

For me , the answer is a positive yes  :) ....

Benefits of a Yoni Massage : 

Personal empowerment and growth , spiritual enlightenment , opening energy channels , re-balancing the Chakras .
Higher states of consciousness.
Healing and releasing past pain and trauma .
Improving or overcoming conditions , building confidence and self-esteem , empowerment .
Liberating you as a worthy human being .
Embracing positive thoughts and emotions .....

Yoni = is the Sanskrit word for "Vagina" (sacred space).

The holistic approach is that Yoni massage is a spiritual practise that allows a woman to connect to her Goddess essence , her Shakti , in it's many expressions .
The Yoni massage is a whole body experience that includes touching , arousing and massaging the whole body ....


This is my clients first experience with Tantra , today is the day i make that difference .
Draped with a warm soft comforting towel she looks relaxed . Opening up the massage i use warm sweet almond oil with with a few drops of Geranium to balance the hormones .
My hands glide up her spine , softly and seductively i distribute the oil and work around the shoulders .
Caressing her neck the body weakens and the verbal sweet sighs become more prominent as she eases into a relaxed state ....
I tenderly work on her back , teasing the tension and stress away . 

The connection is magnetic , thoughts rushing around my head ......

I place myself in the same scenario , because of my past i would personally choose to visit  a female therapist . 

What expectations would i have ?

Yes , i would like to feel safe and secure . I would like to experience embrace the whole experience   
with an open mind !

Holding onto these thoughts i trickle the warm scented oil over the buttock area and softly massage a very soft peachy area .
I slide my hands up and down making my first connection with the rosebud , a very sensual and erogenous zone .  She sighs heavily and her breathing a little more upbeat .
 This is a new feeling to my client , her body language is screaming out to increase the pleasure ....


Always massaging the whole body i conclude the first half of the session with me knelt between the clients legs . 
Further work is focused slowly awakening the Kundalini energy and positive massage on the all important Chakra areas . 
Not letting an opportunity pass i sweep the buttocks , using lashings of warm oil , i circle my fingers around the rosebud to heighten her sensual awareness .


As she turns over i notice a beautiful flush of colour around her face and chest . I encourage her to slowly inhale her breath and then release .
Our energies connected shared with the same breathing space ...
I massage her breasts , cupping them with soft tender movements . Her body moving around with the rhythm and flow of energy .

The contentment and desire had spread through out her body , leaving me to explore and serve her  ,
with an unforgettable Tantric journey .

I approached the "Sacred Space" with a deepened sensitivity and gently massaged the mound and labia . Her legs effortlessly  moved apart making way for more pleasure , trickling the warm oil i circled her clitoris .
I could feel the intensity pulsating through her body as she screamed out , sliding up and down the entire length of her labia and i softly grasped the clitoral hood and massaged until it throbbed .

Her body making involuntary quivers as she moaned with desire , riding her first Tantric Wave ...


20% of women never experience "The Big O" !!!

Liberate yourself  and release negative emotions , feel the EUPHORIC energy , restoring the feeling of fulfilment of peace and serenity .....



The Yoni   xxx 

When i realised 
How different they could be 
I took the hand mirror 
Laid back on my bed 

Curiosity got the better of me 
So i explored with eyes and fingers . My intimate circles , holes and arches ....

They say inner Goddess 
Is in every woman .
Today i saw her full glory of life giving beauty ,
With my own eyes , here between my thighs  xxxx

Sunday 17 March 2013

Seduce your lover with the art of Tantra ....

17/3/13



Okay you people, maybe I am wrong or have just been unfortunate.

There comes a time in life and you lose your way a little, other outside pressure’s , condition us as people.

Bang!  
Suddenly it is expected that we move into the domestic goddess phase, work long hours and keep house and garden …

 We develop a second pair of eyes and ears for something we might just miss.
Ohhh, not to mention when all duties are fulfilled, the other half is waiting patiently for the frazzled out look to be transformed.
Yes!   The desirable look he wants is sexy and sassy …

Time to take control but for you and for the benefit of going that extra mile with any relationship .

A good relationship is healthy and positive , couples who play together , stay together ....

Send your partner a personal invitation, prepare for this:
Quiet time, soft music and scented candles.
Ask your partner to take an assisted bath/shower. Utilise a warm soft flannel and gently stroke the body, building up a soft fluffy lather.
Work your way to the room you have prepared for him /her.
Ask him/her to lay face down on the couch/bed.
Taking some warm oil, rub together with both hands and gently distribute over the back area. Don’t worry about technical moves; this is your personal experience.
Slowly glide your hands down the lower part of the back area, caress the buttock area, and be liberal with the oil.
The better the slip will help promote a better glide. Sweep inwards towards the inner thigh, tease, and stimulate the erogenous areas.
Be naughty and give the sacred area lots of attention, caressing and stroking, backwards and forwards.
Cup the all-important parts , tenderly manipulate and softly pull . Not forgetting the perineum , stroke and tickle is the answer .
 Clench your hand into a ball and roll around the perineum area , This will really raise the temperature ....

Ladies, please remember. Surrender is not an option!

At this point, your partner’s body will be responsive. Legs will appear to be more spread apart to allow further pleasuring, the rocking motion and a slight uplift of the body supporting themselves on the elbows. This is normally accompanied with heavy breathing, moans and delayed pleasurable groans.

You my Goddess are now in control, engaging his/hers mind, body and soul ….

Work your way around the body using the same technique.
Use your femininity to heighten the sensual energy. As you give a neck and shoulder massage gaze into his/hers eyes. Softly whisper sensual things in their ears, kissing the lopes will heighten the sensual energy.
At this point you may experience (touchy feely syndrome), gently place touchy feely hands back in position.
You are the most desirable person on this planet and he/she is aching to recipicate.
The key: is to maintain this connection but remain in control.
Remain at the head area and use your body, allow your soft   breasts to  brush down onto his/hers face as you massage.
 Pay attention to the nipple area, tease and rub them as you lovingly massage .

Insania comes to mind, increased panting, sighs, and a lot of writhing around.

Soooo, let’s turn things up shall we?
Straddle yourself over your partner, eyes locked.
 Allow the warm oil to trickle through your hands and take a few long deep breaths.
Give your partner that twinkled eyed look and take in the ambiance, his/her body will be glistening in the glow of the candles.
The sensual energy in the room will be euphoric, slowly glide your body across there’s. Tease your breasts and softly kiss them working your way down.
Time to conclude or draw your own conclusion   …

Love, live, laugh xxx
Happy St Patricks Day  

Irish Blessing

May you always walk in sunshine
May you never want for more
May Irish angels rest their wings right beside your door xxx

Tuesday 12 March 2013

Is there a me out there ?

12/3/13


Self discovery , amazing !


Having spent years with suppressed emotions and thoughts throughout life i feel positive changes flowing freely . 

My heart is sending hugs and baskets of flowers to you all . 
No names ever mentioned , but you know who you are . Thank you for the encouragement and support.



Is there anybody out there who would like to contact me ?

Possibly we could share thoughts , brain storm ideas and make a positive connection ?

We are all human , 

We feel , we love , and also worry about things .....

Standing together does make a difference . 
Maybe it's got you thinking about things ?

Its a crazy world we live in , but it's OUR WORLD . So lets share it .....



                                                       Imagine there's no heaven 
                                                              It's easy if you try 
                                                               No hell below us 
                                                                 Above us only sky 
                                                        Imagine all the people living for today 

                                                     Imagine there's no countries 
                                                            It isn't hard to do 
                                                        Nothing to kill or die for 
                                                              And no religion too 
                                                        Imagine all the people living life in peace 

                                                                  You , you may say 
                                                         I'm a dreamer , but i'm not the only one 
                                                             I hope some day you'll join us 
                                                         And the world will be as one   ........


                                                                          John Lennon .   




                                                                                     
                                     


Monday 11 March 2013

Tantra and the voice within ....

8/3/13



It’s just another day, and, deep in thought organizing my appointments. I book a new client in for an afternoon session. He arrives and introductions are made. My first impressions: sophisticated, distinguished, looks after his body. This was a new experience for my client, so I imagine all sorts of thoughts may have been rushing around his head.
I put him at ease and work through the session. As a masseuse, I feel it is a treat to work on a body that is well toned and taut. Touch is a powerful thing and connection enhances the energies.
Time passes very quickly and the session draws to the end. It may be hard to understand if you haven’t experienced the world of Tantra. Because of the connections that are formed instantly, one feels openness and strength of unity.
We talk and I enquire what plans he had in store for the remainder of the day? My client said he was going back home to relax and read. I laughed and said, “Hmmm, you are into reading and I’m doing a lot of writing”.
He told me that he likes to feed his mind. My curiosity got the better of me and I enquired into what he did for a living? He told me that he was a philosopher.
My mouth engaged before brain again. I blurted out:
“Don’t even go there, seriously I’m not into psycho analysing “

He started to laugh, his body language so open and relaxed, instantly putting me back at ease as we chatted more. The conversation had taken a detour and we were discussing the inspiration for the blog.
Initially my reason for starting the blog was for my love of Tantra and I wanted to share this. The second reason, self-healing for me through expressing my thoughts in writing.

“Mr Philosopher” scratched the surface of my personal life and started the fuse smouldering. We talked about love and rejection and it hurt .The wounds I had been guarding for so long started to bleed again. I cried and cried like the young girl I was many years ago. “Mr Philosopher” suggested that love presents itself in many ways and maybe my misguided interpretation of rejection was protection?

I engaged with this suggestion. I saw my past in another dimension and it seemed to me that I had been holding onto a lot of anger and frustration for many years. Our brief encounter had been a blessing and I could not thank him enough. Being honest with the person I am today means a lot to me and is one of the focuses of this blog. A valued lesson taken on board, I am not the young girl I was anymore. Tantra has changed my life, engaging with mind, body and soul enriches me on every level.



Thank you “Mr Philosopher”, you have fed my brain and I yearn for more.




Monday 4 March 2013

Valentines Sassy Tie n Tease


Feeling the love  :  3/3/13 


Wednesday afternoon and our two very different worlds collide. It's a little chilly outside but feel quite positive the temperature is going to rise. I have worked with my client on a few occasions and know what makes him tick . Previously i mentioned my lovely black and red stiletoes. It was clear he had formed an attachment towards them .

Today just for him and the "Tie n Tease", I'm wearing sheer black " baby doll ", trimmed in a soft red satin and matching skimpy thong, accompanied with black lace stockings and heels. His arrival with a smile is always appreciated. I asked him to make himself comfortable face down on the couch .

I entered the room and walked towards the lamp . As i bent down to dim the lighting . i could see him straining his neck to peep at the top of my stockings . I chose a feather to start the session with , gently stroking over his body . Climbing onto the couch , i straddled him and teased with the feather , down his spine , wrapping it around his bum cheeks . Teasing him was easy , his body lifting from the couch , raising his bum , Whooee , back down boy .

When it was time to warm things up , i asked him to sit on the side of the couch , blindfold in place (no peeping please). I tied is hands together , abandoning the handcuffs (not a good idea: i kept losing the keys ).

I instructed him: "Hands above your head please" . I like music with rhythm, so i danced provocatively. Using my body , I swayed my hips and pressed my body towards him , my leg wrapping around his .

                                                        Rude Boy.

                                        Tonight I'm a give it to you harder 

                                       Tonight I'm a turn your body out 

                                                       Relax

                                         Let me do it how i wanna 

                                         If you got it , i need it 

                                        And I'm a put it down

                                      Buckle up , I'm a give it to you stronger

                                      Hands up we can go a little longer 

                                     Tonight I'm a get little crazy 

                                         Get a little crazy baby 

Pushing his body away from me , I draped mine towards him . Ice cube in my hand i rub it around his lips , placing the ice cube between my lips i use my tongue and tease towards his mouth. 
Taking the ice cube from him , I work down and tease his nipples until he tells me that they are tingling . I could feel his heart pumping away ; trust me , at this point it was not the only thing pumping . Testosterone filled the room and his breathing quite heavy and masculine . My ice cube had disintegrated and now formed long drips of water that streamed down his hot chest, leaving me feeling quite damp . I untied his hands and removed the blindfold , slipping myself on the couch . Eye contact locked between us , i asked him to move closer and whispered in his ear . 

"You have been a bad, bad boy and need to be punished."

"Do as you are told and take off my stockings , very slowly."

I could feel his damp clammy hands : they started to tremble as he brushed against my inner thigh. My client stood at the side of the couch with a raging erection , the room was filled with an aphrodisiacal energy. Swirling with euphoria our energies had definitely connected , smoothing the way for Tantra ....

Drizzling warm oil over a very horny man has quite a sizzle on things , i think .

I used slow , soothing massage strokes , relaxing and preparing his body for the journey that he awaits , and releasing tension from his neck and shoulders . Stretching and manipulating , working my way down , I focus on balancing energy in the whole body , especially heart and base chakras . Waves of sensual energy spread throughout the body building up for an intensified , powerful and ultimately blissful body  experience . My aim is to free my client's mind and connect him with the life force known as sexual energy , into awakening of the senses ,